I gave the message to not send maxi dresses or skirts as sadly they all look terrible on me and to send cami's, leggings, and in an ideal world a gender neutral shower options -- nailed it!
Denver Cable Knit Elbow Patch Cardigan
I am a sucker for a patch sleeve, but this sweater is like nothing i own and great layer for the winter - and bonus fantastic with my new boots!
Tomi Suede Neckline Maternity Knit Top
Sabrine Maternity Faux Wrap Dress
This was exactly what I had in mind for something gender neutral for showers, and also a wedding I have coming up. The material is a bit thinner than I would prefer but overall fantastic
Porter Maternity Legging
3-Pack Maternity Cami
Pretty self explanatory -- had heard great things about them. They are black, white, and nude, and long enough.
Try it out for yourself! https://www.stitchfix.com/referral/3115097